THE SHOW MUST GO ON

Going by the comment of one and only follower of my blog :) i think i should finally post about those two lessnons  i was going to mention here from my experience of that day.
So here it goes...
It was a friends' birthday.
i have a little group of 6 here in my neighborhood and we are in different colleges at different levels, it was P's b'day shes the senior of us all.
As its our last year together (we'll move to different cities next year for further studies) i wanted to give her a surprise b'day party and also wanted it to be special for all of us.everything was planned. But one of our friend A, refused to come, her cell was also switched off i don't know why and never even asked her after that. And somehow (we are stupid enough!!) we got late with arrangements, then i couldn't reach A she wasn't back from college yet and hell her cell!!
Well anyway P was really happy when we showed up at her door and surprised. But we were missing A and the whole evening she din turn on her cell. P was upset about that part only everything else went great, because no matter what, you always end up having a good time with your friends and thats all i wanted..yyiippeeee :).
Though i already knew A wasn't interested, she has issues and i wasn't surprised by waht she did. She had told me a day earlier and i tried to convince her but to no avail!!

So first is THE SHOW MUST GO ON...
yes thats what i totally believe in now. That day the whole thing was so close to going haywire but somehow we worked it out because we know how much it means to P, how could we ever let her down, we don't even know where, when and how we'll be able to see each other after this year.

Second is, sometimes we have to forget ourselves when it comes to our loved ones and that stop fretting about the things going wrong or the things not going our way and just think about the smile that you can give someone if only you stop being selfish!! we got to do things for that person even if we don't like it or want it, at least we know it means a lot to them so i don't think there is anything wrong putting aside your ego and just be nice..
P was so happy but the fact that A didn't come and didn't even talk to any of us was bugging her the whole time...